Talking to girls is one thing, but actually getting to the next step can be a challenge all on its own. Many can’t even get their foot in the door and if you are able to hold a 5 minute conversation you are doing great, the problem is turning that conversation into something more physical and to assert yourself as being attractive and being attracted to the girl you are talking to. This article will provide a few tips for taking a conversation to the next level and some tips to follow to try and help you hook up with girls.
Have Confidence
The first thing you need to do in order to even think about having a shot, is to have confidence at all times. No matter how you look or what you are wearing, if you can remain confident and assertive you can keep a conversation going and keep a woman interested. Keep the conversation positive keep smiling and keep very confident. If you come across as a nervous wet blanket, this can be a huge turnoff for women so if necessary change your mindset, even play pretend if you have to.
Listen
Listening to a woman is always important. If you can’t remember a woman’s name or a story that she told you 5 minutes ago that throws the conversation out the window. Women enjoy a man that can listen to them and that can converse with them. Steamrolling your way through a conversation and only talking about yourself is never good. Listen to what a lady has to say and let her know that you are listening by asking questions or remaining attentive.
Look Your Best
Looking your best at all times certainly helps. You don’t have to meet a woman at a nightclub in order to get her phone number or hook up. Think of just about every interaction as a potential moment that you could form a relationship with someone or potentially hook up. If you always look your best, you will be confident to talk to someone in any situation. As well if you are one of the better looking more composed people in a room when you do go out on the town, there is a better chance you might actually get approached by a woman as well. Making a good first impression is important and if you are dressed to impressed, neat and tidy you will be far more approachable and appealing.
Watch Body Language
Observe to her body language as well. Body language can be one of the most important factors to tell if someone is into you. Although a woman may not always say what she really means, her body language will always reveal the truth. Subtle cues like the way a woman holds a drink, if her arms are crossed or uncrossed and the posture that she has while talking to you can all be indications of whether she likes you or is just humoring you. If you see any signs of body language that would suggest she’s not into you it may be best to move onto a new target, try to turn things around quickly. However if you see body language that would suggest she is into you, do not be afraid to make a move and see where the night takes you.
As with anything hooking up with women takes some practise. Remaining confident, looking good, listening and reading body language are part of it but every situation is different and will vary. By talking with women regularly and being more social in every environment with women, you are sure to see differences in your ability to remain composed while talking to women, and potentially start hooking up with them too.